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Big Talk Card Game

Like a juicy serum for your mind. Nourish your heart, mind and soul with Big Talk about complex topics. A safe space for serious chats. Indulge in connection, intimacy, and exploration. Like your go-to serum for hydration, use whenever you desire a hearty dose of connection, compassion and closeness. Absolutely zero questions about the weather.

  • Contains mature themes. This is not appropriate for those under 18 years old. 54 Game Cards. Co-created with psychologists. Grounded in science, not fluff. Designed to engender connection, closeness and intimacy.

  • Inspired by the 1997 research paper, ‘The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness: A Procedure and Some Preliminary Findings’ (more commonly known as ‘36 Questions to Fall in Love’), we created this game with one question in mind: how can we more intimately connect with the people in our lives? Science told us we need sustained, escalating, reciprocal, personalistic self-disclosure. In other words, we need to answer increasingly personal questions, and then have others do the same. Daunting? Exciting.

  • The focus of these game cards is on identity. Who are you really, what do you value, and how do you want to live your life?

  • Use whenever you want a heavy dose of nourishing, connection, and closeness. Use with friends, or solo as self-inquiry prompts. Start with Set I and work your way to Set III. Take turns asking and answering questions.

  • We accept all the major credit cards, and buy-now-pay-later options. We offer both Afterpay and Klarna payment options.


Because beauty is more than what we look like. It’s how we feel. It’s how we experience. It’s how we show up in life. The mind is the secret to inward contentment. Mental wellbeing, the secret to a vibrant physical one. Expand your routine to include the mind-body connection. And experience the glow of holistic self-care.


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Self Care™ Originals respectfully acknowledges the Traditional Owners of country on which we work, the Wurundjeri Willam people, and pay our respects to their Elders past and present.