Big Talk Card Game

Contains mature themes. This is not appropriate for those under 18 years old. 54 Game Cards. Co-created with psychologists. Grounded in science, not fluff. Designed to engender connection, closeness and intimacy.

Inspired by the 1997 research paper, ‘The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness: A Procedure and Some Preliminary Findings’ (more commonly known as ‘36 Questions to Fall in Love’), we created this game with one question in mind: how can we more intimately connect with the people in our lives? Science told us we need sustained, escalating, reciprocal, personalistic self-disclosure. In other words, we need to answer increasingly personal questions, and then have others do the same. Daunting? Exciting.

The focus of these game cards is on identity. Who are you really, what do you value, and how do you want to live your life?

Use whenever you want a heavy dose of nourishing, connection, and closeness. Use with friends, or solo as self-inquiry prompts. Start with Set I and work your way to Set III. Take turns asking and answering questions.

We accept all the major credit cards, and buy-now-pay-later options. We offer both Afterpay and Klarna payment options.